As a parent, especially a new parent, you may be concerned about leaving your child
with a caregiver other than yourself. As a result of these concerns, you may think
about using a nanny cam. This is a delicate issue that should be handled in a sensitive
manner. There are not only legal issues to consider but also the impact on your
relationship with your nanny. If you are considering using a nanny camera you should
become aware of the laws in your state. In addition to the laws, you may want to
think about how this may affect your relationship with your nanny. Trust is very
important in this unique relationship and needs to be nurtured. If you are to go
with a nanny cam, you should discuss this with your nanny interview candidates prior
to hiring (in the interview) and once hired, have the nanny sign a document stating
that they are aware of the "hidden nanny camera." This way you are hiring someone
who you know is comfortable with this practice.
The short answer to the legal question is, it is legal, to use a hidden camera in
all 50 states. The laws of 13 states expressly prohibit the unauthorized installation
or use of cameras in private places. A private place is one where a person may reasonably
expect to be safe from unauthorized surveillance. Consider that studies and polls
show that many nannies are not necessarily against videotaping of child-nanny interaction,
it's just that they want to know about it. It seems to be a matter of trust and
feeling of deception. Some parents handle the situation by telling a potential nanny
care provider upfront that nanny cameras will be used so that they can feel comfortable
and confident about their child's care. It's then up to the nanny to accept or decline
the position with a family who uses a nanny cam. The decision whether to nanny cam
or not really is a decision that is ultimately related to your fears and trust as
a mother and employer.
If you are going to use nanny cams, I recommend that you let your nanny know at
the beginning of the relationship, as early as the first interview. I would prefer
that nannies bad behaviors were prevented, not “caught”. If you have a nanny cam
and don’t tell your nanny and she finds out about it, the trust may be broken and
your nanny may feel disrespected. A professional nanny will understand that in the
beginning of the relationship trust is still being built. Studies and polls show
that many nannies are not necessarily against videotaping of nanny child-provider
interaction; it's just that they want to know about it. It seems to be a matter
of trust and feeling of deception. Being open with your nanny will help to build
and maintain that trust.
In addition to nanny cams, if you are concerned about what your nanny is up to,
here are a few more things you can do to check-up on your nanny:
- Have a neighbor drop by unexpectedly.
- Drop by on your lunch hour and check-in.
- Keep a regular schedule so you know when something is off.
- Is your TV warm? Has she been watching TV all day?
- If you see something suspicious, or are curious about something, question your nanny
and discuss your concerns together.